Q: I need some guidance from the Rabbi regarding a woman whom I have been dating. She is a G-d fearing woman and I am sure she will convert to Judaism, but it might take years. She is in my thoughts 24 hours a day. I need to know if I can speed her conversion or how or to leave her totally. But than I need spiritual healing in order to find my real soul mate. Thank you,A: So long as this woman has not been converted it is not good to think about her. You have to try to be practice "Walk simply with G-d" See Rashi's explanation on this verse in Deuteronomy 18:16. Also see the chapter on this verse in the Rabbi Ginsburgh's book "Sod Hashem" (page 150) [At present the book is only in Hebrew. It may be ordered through our on-line store]. Continue to meet other women and let Divine Providence work for you. Wishing you true inner peace to find your soul mate.
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