An example of inter-inclusion: Say "I love you." Feel the "love you" in the "I," the "I-you" in the "love," and the "I love" in the "you."
The effect of inter-inclusion: There is no "I" without loving you, no egocentricity, no feeling of an independent I who happens to love you.
And so there is no abstact, unidentified experience of the emotion of love without the real presence of "I-you" in the picture.
And so "I love" is an inseparable part of "you." It is that holy spark in you that reflects my love of you, arousing your love of me.